Metal Sickness

If someone has hurt you intentionally, you should know that they are sick. What should be your attitude towards someone who is sick? You should be compassionate towards them --

We need to understand that he/she is in bad mood or had an off day.

We must not allow their anger to enter your mind to effect your mind so that you also don't react in same manner 
as that someone is behaving.

We must show compassion ,may be that will help them to change their behavior i.e is positive attitude in a hope that may be out of 10 people 2-3 may gets changed and learn from your negative response to their anger.

If someone gives positive response to their anger it will lead to quarrel surely which became ugly to worst in minutes and will be remembered years later on....

Life is not about Newtons 3rd law - to every action their is equal and opposite reaction.

When words starts to affect anyone ,he/she might able to control your senses .Why allow anyone to give control of yourself, your mind and heart will be in your control and you need to be the driver of yourself.

If we remain calm in this situation we will be in control of our-self as well use this saved energy on calming the other person. If we behave similarly to the other person whats distinguish me from him .

This kind of sickness will not be treated with same attitude or response but with a little bit of care either he/she is your own or some other person.If it is in nature of the person to remain calm,he/she should remain calm anyhow and it will reflect is his/her behavior towards other either known or unknown. Compassion is the characteristic of humble,gentleness and more human way then retaliation. 

Its like a appetite same as when we feel hungry and we cannot able to control it .

Similarly is when someone hit at us we want to hit them back in retaliation ,this is applicable to those who have less control of their senses,actions and mouth (verbally).

General tendency of human is most of the people we don't remember the good things spoken or good deeds someone did but if a wrong world spoken or any wrong act done against you it hurt the self more and here comes ego in picture ..

A fully Compose person, a spiritual guru only can able control his/her senses,actions. His approach is similar just listen the words from one ear and pass through another ear .Never store or keep these garbage words in mind.
When someone throws something bad on him/her he/she put a filter to it to ignore what is not require.